Are you tired of acting crazy, the endless confrontations or even acting the fool?
Is your man a serial cheat who is constantly putting your health, heart and mind in jeopardy? If you haven’t packed your bags and exited this
unwholesome and emotionally draining relationship then there might be some hope yet.
Here are 5 ways Nigerian women have tried to keep their men from straying.
1.Prayer!!!
There’s a popular prayer that goes “Every strange woman targeting my husband, fall down and DIEEEEE!” It is a known fact that after marriage many women reduce their sleep hours from 7-8hours a day to about 6 hours maximum to make room for midnight and early morning prayer sessions.
Seems the prayers never end, before marriage women are praying on the mountain for a good man and
after marriage they are praying on their knees to keep that man faithful.
2. African magic!
Some women actually believe in fighting fire with fire but like M.I said, “Are you ready to dance with the devil?”
Thanks to Nollywood, we are almost 100% sure that jazz leads to madness, blindness or strange illnesses as a consequence for those who practice it. Please say NO to charms and strangled chickens!
3.Trading in the hair net and wrapper for the silk hair wrap and sexy lingerie!
Yes we’ve heard it all; How to keep your man, how to make him so thoroughly satisfied that he never wants to look at another woman.
How to memorize the karma sutra….a million tips and tricks to keep your man! Agreed some men have attributed their infidelity to women who didn’t take care of themselves and allowed themselves become fat, frumpy and asexual but then how come Tiger Woods still cheated on his wife?
If you are doing everything right then you must rule out love potions as the cause of your man’s distraction or maybe he is just an insatiable punk with deep-seated emotional issues!
4.Planning your exit strategy or backup!
Some women have resorted to acquiring property in their name or their kids’ names with his money and commandeering money away to a
secret bank account while the going is good, others start looking out for a new man while one leg is still in the relationship.
A joint account was a romantic notion of old that signified unity of the home but now it is considered the most foolhardy of ventures and only done for specific projects like the children’s college fund or a house, if your man is a serial cheat please avoid joint business ventures.
5.Stalking him!
Some women to avoid fear of the unknown, stalk their man, his phones, his office and basically turn Inspector Gadget just to catch him at it but putting your life on hold for this singular reason brings up the salient question…’To what end?’
A man who is constantly unfaithful doesn’t deserve you. Staying longer than necessary in this toxic relationship can lead to depression,
poor self-esteem and rage!
Over to you..
What other way do you think Nigeria women keep their man in check?
Let me know by leaving a quick comment below right now.
